March 4, 2021 Ozlem Yildiz

How to Gain Self-Confidence?

Most people do not know that self-confidence can be developed and that self-confidence can be learned, even under very difficult conditions, so they are far from the idea of leaning over it.

If you want to build self-confidence, remember to love yourself every day.

You can start self-confidence by realizing that you deserve to be loved first. You deserve to have love for yourself. Sounds like a very simple thing, doesn't it?

The truth is this: Being honest with ourselves is one of the most difficult issues in life.They upset us in the past, and we met our shy side. Loving yourself means trusting yourself. Trusting oneself means being honest with oneself.

The act of self-love, easy to say for most of us, is hard to do. If you realize that you are saying or doing something to make others happy, you are denying yourself and your purpose to be in this world. You are preventing your own happiness. I invite you into the act of loving yourself more, because this is the best way to get you closer to who you really are.

Many times we cannot be sure of ourselves. We constantly change our decisions, or make our decisions based on those around us. Why are we so prone to trusting others but not ourselves?

In a world that is so ready to judge you or compare it to others, it can be difficult not to conceal or suppress yourself.

We learn judgment from our society and from our parents, and we begin to judge ourselves endlessly, because that's what we've been taught. There is no way to live a happy and loving life while constantly judging ourselves.

Because by constantly trying to catch ideas imposed by someone else, you will be chasing something that is not suitable for your unique existence.

There is no right or wrong way to build self-confidence. Trust the child inside you. It will guide you. Love yourself and be your best version. Be true to yourself.

Don't think you failed when you made a mistake. Life is a never ending learning experience. Sometimes we make decisions that fit our reality, and sometimes we don't. What's wrong with learning?

We are not defined by the mistakes we make. Give up your negative self-talk habit and love yourself. When you do this, you will notice many powerful changes in you.

3 HABITS TO BUILD CONFIDENCE

Write a journal

Write down your daily experiences, did you respond to events by listening to your inner voice, did someone's behavior make you unhappy? As you write, you will begin to realize that you are doing your best, and you will become as close to yourself and to expressing your truth.

Meditate

There is no better way to relax than to relax, breathe and rest your thoughts. Meditation is the ideal time to be aware of the true expectations from life and to put that expectation into positive positive statements.

When you develop the habit of loving yourself every day, self-confidence will become a habit.

Do mirror work every day

Looking into your eyes and expressing your true feelings is a great way to be aware of your veiled fears and respond to them with understanding and compassion.